Sunday, January 10, 2010

Playing hard to get?

Q: Do girls play hard to get, or are they not playing? How much persistence is too much persistence? If one call/email doesn't attract their attention, should you go ahead and move to the next one?

A: Yes, sometimes girls DO play hard to get. The question is how hard are they playing? If they are playing hard to get in a flirtatious way then you're probably on the right track. If every single time you approach them, talk to them, call them, email them they ignore you or are short with you, then they're probably just not that into you.

How much is too much? Well if one email/call does not attract them, it doesn't mean they're not into you. They could have been busy (really) or had a lot going on, and the timing truly could have been off. You can send an email/call a second time, not more than once in a week though. If there is no response, or a less than friendly response to your second contact, take that as a hint.

Happy dating! `A

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