Q: What's the best way to get the attention of a female you are interested in (who otherwise doesn't know you exist)?
A: Hire a sky writer to write it in the clouds. Oh, that's not in your budget? Ok, well then, for the "average consumer" here are some suggestions:
First she needs to know you exist. This means you will HAVE to approach her for conversation!! Girls like to be pursued. It is your job to do the pursuing. You do not have to have some amazing pick up line. Begin the conversation based on your surroundings. If you are in school, ask about homework or a project that's due soon. If you have mutual friends, ask about the friend(s) you both know. If you're cousins, talk about the family reunion. [This only applies to AL & MS residents] This initial conversation will probably not be an hour long conversation, it will more than likely be no more than a few sentences. Do not despair. This does not mean she isn't interested. *WARNING* if by chance, she keeps looking away while you are talking to her, if she keeps staring at a friend with a look like "HELP, come save me" then, she's probably not that into you.
You are going to have to be patient at first. You will have to wait for a few chance encounters before deciphering if she is interested in you. If you walk in the room, and she immediately grins, that's a good sign. It's ok to send her a friend request on facebook, but don't do it the same night you meet her, that could come across as a little stalkerish. If you wait a few days, it appears, that you just "happened" to notice her on someone elses friend list, and it makes you seem like a little less of a creeper.
happy dating! `A
I disagree A. In my opinion, just ask a girl out! Don't worry about all the in between. No games! If she likes you, she'll say yes and if she doesn't, don't get your feelings hurt. Take it like man. It's her loss, right?
ReplyDeleteAL and MS residents!!!!!!! LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteso Kendall, you think the FIRST time a guy meets you, he should ask you out?
ReplyDeletewell....maybe not first. That might be stalkerish, but don't wait until you feel like you know her in and out cause by then we aren't interested anymore. :)
ReplyDeleteI agree with that!
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed the Warning... haha.. You hit the nail on the head A! Get to know the person and make sure you have that connection otherwise you'll be on a date where nobody talks.
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