Love Triangle

If you're like me, you may have to read this one through a few times to comprehend it!

Q: What if you are friends with one girl who likes you, but you like her friend who you don't know well enough to just call up on your own? (The classic love-triangle, except "her friend" doesn't necessarily not like you and you of course met "her friend" through her in the first
place.)

A: Whewww, this one was a tough one for the guru! First of all, until you are in a committed relationship (and by this I mean marriage, engaged, or very seriously dating) your TRUE friendships are going to come before any dating relationship. Therefore, if these two girls are good friends, one of them is not gonna date you if she knows the other likes you. A girl knows that if she forfeits the friendship, and the boyfriend doesn't work out, well, then she's left with nothing.

I know that was mostly about the friendship between the girls....so here's my advice to you. Forget it for now. If the "other girl" likes you, she will eventually start giving you signs that she is interested. At that point, you can attempt to make your move, and see where it goes from there.

Hope that helped some....if not, let me know and I'll attempt to clarify!

Happy dating! `A