Sunday, March 7, 2010

what are the rules?

Q: Can you ask out your best friends ex-girlfriend?

A: Sure, if you don't like your best friend very much! Really though, it all depends, there are WAY too many variables in this scenario!

First variable: How long did they date? If it was just a few months, then yes, there's a possibility here. If it was over a year, I'd say no.

Second variable: Why did they break up? Was it because your best friend was a jerk, or doesn't want to make a commitment? If so, then there's possibility. If she was the one with problems, then why are you wanting to go out with her?

Third variable: How long has it been since they broke up? I'd say you need to give it at LEAST a year before pursuing anything.

Fourth variable: Does your BFF still talk about her or have feelings for her? If so, then you don't need to go out with her.

Fifth (& last) variable: How sure are you that things will work out with this oh so wonderful girl? You better be pretty sure to put a friendship on the line!

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